All men are being treated as potential rapists because all women are potential rape victims. All women are being treated as potential rape victims because our society teaches women that when they are raped it is because they were not careful enough, they did not take the proper precautions, they did not treat every man as a potential rapist and were lulled into a false sense of security.

You want to talk sexism?

Sexism is having one in six women experience sexual assault in their lifetimes and living in a society which blames these women for being raped. 

Sexism is telling girls and women to be careful about what you wear, how you wear it, how you carry yourself, where you walk, when you walk there, with whom you walk, whom you trust, what you do, where you do it, with whom you do it, what you drink, how much you drink, whether you make eye contact, if you’re alone, if you’re with a stranger, if you’re in a group, if you’re in a group of strangers, if it’s dark, if the area is unfamiliar, if you’re carrying something, how you carry it, what kind of shoes you’re wearing in case you have to run, what kind of purse you carry, what jewelry you wear, what time it is, what street it is, what environment it is, how many people you sleep with, what kind of people you sleep with, who your friends are, to whom you give your number, who’s around when the delivery guy comes, to get an apartment where you can see who’s at the door before they can see you, to check before you open the door to the delivery guy, to own a dog or a dog-sound-making machine, to get a roommate, to take self-defense, to always be alert always pay attention always watch your back always be aware of your surroundings and never let your guard down for a moment lest you be sexually assaulted and if you are and didn’t follow all the rules it’s your fault.

That is sexism and every rape apologist comment you make only reinforces it further.